Wednesday, February 27, 2008

In response.

In this age of enlightenment and reason....i still find that many similar questions keep repeating overtime.
Look at it anyway men and women are different in everyway....phyiscally and in mental make-up. today many of the things women couldnt do they can do now(thanks to technology and education) , but somethings cant change and we must understand this fundamental difference.
Many of my working women friends find themselves torn between their role at home and work.....and some of the single women have other issues,and what of the stay at home mom.
What i think is people should embrace the differences between man and women and work together, understanding and filling in for each other when one of them is lacking.

Women can give birth....man cannot......women are nurturers in general..they have a dual role....and one must appreciate it and be supportive when it comes to maternal leave ,sick leave etc etc coz arent they bringing up the next generation......yes perhaps they have more on their plate than the average man...so can we see it as something unique and special and that support of the female species is a must!(and viceversa)

Women on the other hand must realise that man is a different creature.despite attempts by feminists saying that we can do without men.....iam sorry to say its not true.....we need them as much as they need us this is the law of nature. why fight this difference why not embrace it instead.

As long as the human race exsists their will be stereotyping and racial and sexual differences......prejudices that we continue to fight against......and one day (really hoping) might change......first its the mindset and the attitude that need changing .....as somebody i know recently said men are from mars and women are from venus.......dont forget we belong together to planet earth.

2 comments:

The Ketchup Girl said...

it isn't as simple as you've made it sound. if one was supportive of eachother, we'd not be in this gender inequality mess anyways. The question is toughest fr the employer- inasmuch as one would want to employ women, when it comes to being flexible because she has a family to support, becomes a tad irking at times when pressure at work mounts. And that is something that irks both the emplpyer and the she-employee. She is so torn and at loss from both sides. she doesnt want to be a mom at home, neither can she sometimes give her 100% to work....

but like your nice - bonhomie perspective anyways :)!

the pleasantone said...

coudlnt really respond but wrote it for the male counterparts who read this blog...as for the women i know my own mind is spilt into 3-4 personalities ha ha.
as for the employer sad as i feel for him..he can go fly a kite.
what i is believe is work will be there even tomorow for man or women employee....the world is not going to crash if you dont meet a deadline...so chill! easy for me to say never worked a day.